Momma Always Said You Gotta Worry About Yourself

Mondays blog post was just the tip of the self-realization iceberg. Today's writing connects the dots I failed to see on Monday. Not only is my self-worth tied up in other's opinions, but I have high standards. Click the title to read more about how I figured it out and what I'm going to do to self regulate. **Hint - it has everything to do with the pause.

I don’t need to be taken care of and it’s a problem, sometimes…

From a very young age I was taught to never depend or expect anyone to take care of me, and over the years that mentality warped to include never asking for help. I didn't ask for it when I was trying to figure out how to pay for college. It never occurred to me to … Continue reading I don’t need to be taken care of and it’s a problem, sometimes…